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Understanding the Value of a Prenuptial Agreement

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Understanding the Value of a Prenuptial Agreement

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As a divorce lawyer with over thirty years of experience, I’ve seen the many ways a prenuptial agreement can be beneficial for couples. Here are a few reasons to consider one:

  1. Clarity on Financial Rights: A prenup can clearly outline the financial rights and responsibilities of both parties, preventing misunderstandings down the road.

  2. Protection of Assets: Ensure that personal and family assets, properties, and inheritances are safeguarded.

  3. Debt Protection: A prenup can specify that the debt of one partner won’t become the responsibility of the other.

  4. Simplifies the Divorce Process: In unfortunate cases of separation, having a prenup often makes the divorce process more straightforward and less contentious.

  5. Customization: Every relationship is unique. A prenup allows couples to set the terms of their agreement to fit their specific situation and needs.

  6. Open Communication: Drafting a prenup requires open dialogue about finances, fostering transparency, and trust between partners.

Remember, a prenuptial agreement isn’t planning for divorce; it’s planning for clarity and understanding in your marriage. If you have questions or would like to discuss the potential benefits for your specific situation, don’t hesitate to reach out to schedule a consultation.

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Custody and Divorce in Indiana

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When it comes to custody and divorce, Indiana follows a guideline of parenting time recommendations. Despite some misconceptions, Mom is not given an automatic arbitrary preference over Dad. The Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines state that children need ample time with both parents in order to thrive.  The concept implemented in these guidelines adheres to the idea that BOTH  parents should have a base of minimum time with which they are entitled to spend with their children. This concept is not a limitation, rather, it is a base from which to start.

 

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As implied by the name, the parenting time guidelines are just that – guidelines. Maintaining flexibility within parenting time schedules is vital to it’s success. Going into a co-parenting relationship with rigid demands  puts the focus on entitlement between adults and takes it off of what matters most – the children.

The beginning of a newly divided home can feel chaotic, causing us and our children to crave structure and order. Parenting time schedules can provide that desired structure, for at least one facet of life, for parents and children.

As time passes, and the dynamic of the co-parenting relationship forms, perhaps the rigidity of the parenting time schedule can be softened.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mediation

Why mediation?

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When it comes to divorce and parenting, mediation has been gaining steady traction as a popular choice over the process of litigation. Mediation places the parties involved in the presence of a neutral third party, making choices in a collaborative manner. While mediation might not be the best fit for every circumstance, often, it is the most mutually beneficial choice. What gives mediation an edge over litigation?

 

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1.  Mediation invites the parties involved to be active participants in what decisions are made. Rather than a judge deciding what school is best for your child, you and the other parent decide. Rather than a judge deciding who deserves the wedding china, you and your former partner come together to make that choice together.

2. Costs in mediation tend to be much lower, as multiple trips to Court can add up quickly. Also, though you can still hire a private lawyer to consult with in mediation, it is still possible to seek mediation without representation.

3. Unlike litigation, mediation is not subject to public record. Your private life stays your private life.

4. It sets the bar for the rest of your co-parenting life. Though you may be divorcing, you remain parents. The more quickly you and your co-parent acclimate to compromise in a respectful manner, the better off your children will be.

5. Because everyone involved is an active participant in the choices made during mediation, there is a far greater chance that everyone will comply with the agreement. Both parties having a hand in the process ensures they are invested in following through with the terms of  mediation.

Peaceful Co-Parenting

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The process of divorce can be arduous, not only for the couple deciding to end their relationship, but also for any children involved. The stakes are high, when it comes to custody. A good co-parenting relationship is optimal for the children’s well-being.

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It is important to recognize that you still form a family unit. Though your romantic relationship may have fizzled, remember that you are building a new relationship. This reinvention  should be grounded with respect, patience, empathy, and open communication.  Your former spouse may do things a little differently than you do, but always being  respectful to them will give your children the consistency  they deserve.

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